Rethinking Your Estate Plan

I've posted before about how to keep your estate plan up-to-date even though your finances may be changing. And I was quoted in a recent Money Magazine article on the same subject.

The article addresses some ways to deal with changing finances and talks about things to think about when deciding on how to distribute your property.   They start with a scenario of your son being a struggling actor, and your daughter being a successful software developer:

You don't know what the future holds. Your single son marries andhas five kids; your techie daughter loses her job and becomes ateacher. Unless you're willing to constantly tinker with your will -and explain every change to your kids - parceling out different amountscan back-fire big time.

A better solution: Bequeath yourchildren an equal amount upon your death, but make gifts as needed tothem while you are alive if you can afford it. Want to help yourdaughter with your grandchildren's education? Contribute to their 529college savings plans. (The IRS allows you to make the equivalent offive years' worth of gifts to a 529 all at once - that's $65,000 achild, or $130,000 if given by a couple.) The struggling actor istrying to buy a home? Help him with the down payment.

There areexceptions to the "equal" rule, however. A disabled child who isdependent on you will probably require a bigger share of your assets,which you can provide through a so-called special-needs trust. A child who works in the family business may deserve a larger share ofit than one who doesn't. No matter what you decide, explain yourthinking so that your kids won't have wrenching and potentially costlydisputes later...

The article also talks about ways to include charitable giving in your plan, as well as when to revisit your plan.  I think the main thing is to make sure you let you attorney know all of your concerns upfront, and to answer their questions honestly.  Also, let your attorney know when a change occurs in the family, or if your wishes change.  Lastly, talking to your family about your plan and your decisions can do wonders to keep the peace after you've passed. 

If you are ready to get started on a new plan, or want to update an old one, call my office for an appointment at 781-749-2284. 

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